It’s Not A Good Time

It’s never a good time

I want to write about something deeply personal and yet universal.  Every time I have decided to do something for myself whether it be for my health, wealth, or family it was never a good time I will repeat, it was never a good time.  Can any of you relate?  Do you have a fleeting thought of wow I would love to learn to play the guitar….. or I want to start running…  or I want to try eating healthy?  Have you ever had any of these thoughts and right after it is followed by, “but it’s not the right time because___________.”

Well, I have good news and bad news for you.  First the bad news, IT’S NEVER A GOOD TIME.   The good news, since it is never a good time to change then it is always a good time to change ehhhhh righhht??

This last year I have started to call BS on myself when I have a desire to do something new and I think….. but it’s not a good time….. BS! It’s never a good time.  So the right time is now.

We are beautiful divine beings who are intelligent beyond reason.  If you are having a desire to try something new, there is a reason this is happening.   IT is not a mistake! Listen to your inner wisdom.  Instead of thinking it is not a good time I challenge you to think, “how can I make it happen?” You are a crazy intelligent human being and even if you work, have 10 children, drive a minivan everywhere, volunteer, go to school, etc.  There is always a way.  Set your intentions, pray, and trust that when you ask how can I make it happen the answer will come.  We spend more time thinking and rationalizing about how this can not work instead of brainstorming solutions or even better yet just doing it.  If you want to exercise more and spend a minute 30 times a day thinking about how it is not possible you can save time and drama by just exercising without thinking about how you can’t.

I believe in you! I am rooting for you! What will you just do even though it is not the right time? Wishing you well.  Karla

Question Your MIND!

Question your self-imposed limitations.  Personally, I find that my self-imposed limitations are wrong 99.9% of the time.

One of the first steps is to identify when do your self-limitations pop-up?  For me when I exercise, try something new, or when I am out of my comfort zone.  My mind goes crazy with these thoughts, “You can’t do this.”, “Better just quit.”, “This is silly.”, “What will they think.”, “They might not like how I am doing this.”, “It won’t work.”  These are just a few of my choice phrases.  The funniest part about it all is I don’t even know who “they” are yet?

The second step is to question your thoughts.  Ask yourself when you have limiting thoughts, “Do I 100% know this to be true?” I have yet to answer yes to this question.  So if you find that your thoughts are B.S. then move along and keep truckin! I am continuously humbled by my minds ability to flat out lie to me.  It’s crazy!

Step 3 is to practice.  In order for this to work, you must be willing to identify what triggers your limiting thoughts, question your thoughts, and then keep moving if they are not true.  It takes consistent diligence, courage, and pure stubbornness to keep this going.

If you are anything like me your mind is clever and will do everything in its power to convince you that you are not powerful, capable, and willing to be challenged.

This takes a strong will to do things that make you uncomfortable.

The reward is you will find you are stronger, smarter, more capable, and incredible than you ever knew possible so remember the following steps;

 

  1. Identify situations that trigger you to have self-limiting thoughts.
  2. Question your limiting thoughts, “Do I 100% know this to be true?”.
  3. Practice, practice, practice.

 

You are an incredible, amazing, and powerful person!  Give yourself the chance to prove it!  I am rooting for you!  Karla

What if?

What if for one day you just did what came up.  What if, you thought about exercise and you just did it before your mind had time to think about why you can’t or shouldn’t.

What if, you just did your daily or weekly chores without engaging with why you don’t want to or shouldn’t.

What if, you completed that daunting task at work or in your business without putting it off or procrastinating.

Well the other day I decided that no matter what, whatever chore, task, or health habit I had planned to do I would just complete it without engaging with the mental drama.

I will tell you it was not easy my mind is a persistent force to be reckoned with, but I did it.  I just stayed laser focus and basically talked to myself the way I talk to my three you boys, “You will do this now, you won’t complain, and you will like it.”

You know what? Pushing past my mental games and just focusing on the doing I actually did like it.  The best part of all was that I saved so much time by not engaging with the, “I don’t want to.” It was shocking to me how much quicker my “to do’s” became when I just focused on the doing.

I have been inspired to work on this daily.  Just do! No mental drama.  It is almost like a meditation.  I am not saying I thoroughly enjoy my “to do’s” but I will say I am enjoying the challenge of disengaging with the mental drama and just doing.  It is almost like a game now.

If you try this please let me know.  I would love to hear your wins and challenges.  Wishing you well!